Summer and holiday breaks can be challenging times for divorced or separated parents with shared custody (timesharing) arrangements. The following strategies can help parents manage these periods with minimal stress and conflict.
Note: In Florida legal terminology, the term “timesharing” is used instead of “custody” or “child custody” to describe how divorced or separated parents divide parenting responsibilities. However, in practice, the terms “custody” and “timesharing” are basically interchangeable.
1. Review Your Parenting Plan Early
As with many divorce and custody issues, preparation and expectation management are essential. Begin by examining your existing parenting plan well before summer or holiday breaks. Florida law mandates that parenting plans include detailed timesharing schedules for school breaks, including summer vacations. Understanding the specifics of your agreement can prevent misunderstandings.
To that end, consider contacting Cobb Cole’s Family Law team for a thorough review and audit of your current plan. Our attorneys navigate the details of parenting plans and timesharing schedules to ensure you avoid unpleasant surprises and conflict.
2. Communicate Proactively
Open and early communication with your co-parent is crucial. Discuss vacation plans, special events, and any changes to the regular schedule as soon as possible. Documenting these discussions in writing (including emails and archived chats) provides clarity and creates records you can reference if disputes arise.
3. Be Flexible And Child-Centered
Flexibility can be beneficial, especially when considering children’s activities or unforeseen events. However, any changes to the agreed-upon time-sharing schedule should prioritize the child’s best interests and be mutually agreed upon.
4. Plan For Travel And Activities
If you are planning trips or intending to enroll children in camps, ensure these activities align with the timesharing schedule. Some parenting plans require advance notice for travel, especially for out-of-state or international destinations. Providing detailed itineraries and obtaining necessary consents can prevent conflicts.
5. Address Disagreements Constructively
Disagreements may arise despite your best efforts to accommodate your co-parent’s needs and concerns. Florida courts often encourage mediation to resolve such issues amicably. If mediation fails, legal avenues are available to enforce or modify the parenting plan.
If you are unable to resolve conflicts that arise concerning time-sharing agreements, consider contacting the Family Law attorneys at Cobb Cole. We effectively represent the interests of parents in custody disputes, assist in resolving conflicts, and help you develop parenting plans that meet your requirements.
6. Document Any Changes
Any modifications to the timesharing arrangement should be documented in writing. This documentation can be crucial if disputes occur or if legal intervention becomes necessary. Remember that amendments to custody agreements may require a petition to the court if no agreement can be reached.
7. Consult Legal Professionals When Needed
Navigating timesharing during summer and holidays requires planning, communication, and a focus on the child’s well-being. By adhering to these strategies, parents can create a positive experience for their children during these periods.
If complexities or disputes do arise, consulting with a family law attorney can provide guidance tailored to your situation. Legal professionals can assist in interpreting parenting plans, mediating disputes, and representing your interests in court if necessary. At Cobb Cole, we carefully pair each client with the best attorney(s) to meet their needs.
For more information on family law services, visit Cobb Cole’s Family Law page.
